Thursday, May 17, 2018

Day Tripper: Mother's Day 2018

We have officially started the countdown. I leave for camp on Monday, and I am freaking out about the amount of stuff I still have to do! I have a test on Thursday that I have been studying like crazy, and I am just praying I pass. This weekend, however, was a nice reprieve from the craziness that I've fallen into as I get ready to leave. My family decided to go down to San Diego for Mother's Day and do some of our favorite things down there. We Drove down to Balboa Park and spent the day walking around the Spanish Village which is one of my favorite places in the world. The flowers are gorgeous, the buildings are gorgeous, the ground is gorgeous! I absolutely love the weather in San Diego and it was just lovely, we stepped into some of the shops, got some coffee at the coffee cart, and then walked through the park.

One of my favorite things about San Diego is that a lot of the old buildings are these expansive adobe structures, with big double doors, or gated archways, and the botanical gardens are probably my favorite example of that. I've started getting back into photography (not that I need another hobby), I'm nowhere near good but I've really enjoyed it, and I think a couple of these came out pretty nice. Some of the plants there were so cool looking that I spent a lot of time taking pictures of them, and then probably the same amount of time searching for my brand-new sunglasses that I put down and lost somewhere in the building (Thanks for finding them Chel!).

After the gardens we walked around the square and looked at the vendors and performers scattered around the park, before walking over to the sculptures at the front of the museum. It was funny looking at them as an adult because I used to love this one of the man and the woman as a kid, but on a second look it's actually a really strange mosaic. The snake is kind of weird too but I didn't get a really good picture of it because we stared to head to the International Houses.

 

If you have never been to Balboa Park, I highly recommend it if only for the International Houses. This was my favorite thing as a kid, the best part of all of San Diego in my mind. The International Houses is a village in the park where each building represents a different country, they have folk music playing, photos and displays about the culture of that country and then each building has a sample of a traditional food from their country ( I highly recommend Germany, Poland, Israel and Norway). They will even do events where one country will take over the square for a week or so and they'll have performers and food, and all kinds of fun stuff for the family. This weekend the House of Norway put on the event, and there were booths selling flags, T-shirts, cookies, and all kinds of good things! I picked up these chocolate-covered caramels and they were gone within a day or two, because we all loved them. We spent a long time wandering there, because it's just so much fun to see what kind of events they're doing down there. And then our last stop was walking through the palm canyon trail through the park before heading out to dinner.

For dinner we went to El Indio right off the 5 on India street. They have some of the best Mexican food, and if you are planning a trip to San Diego it's a must. I normally just get tacos or a burrito, but I went for the chicken fajitas this time and they did not disappoint, and no trip to El Indio would be complete without their seasoned chips, or cinnamon sugar chips (which are to die for).

Our final stop on our Mother's Day extravaganza was a trip down to Sea Port Village, which was really where I felt most at home. My family has been going to Sea Port Village since before most of us were born. Every one of the shops down there is perfect, the weather is always so nice and cool, and if you go near the evening before they close the crowds aren't bad and so you can just wander and enjoy the scenery. Also there's a gazebo which is always a sign you should go there often (or that I watch too much Gilmore Girls). My two favorite purchases of this weekend were the color changing nail polish I bought at Del Sol that gives me life, and the pin my sister Bri found that says "We Mermaid For Each Other" and that all of us girls now own. Which is basically the best saying ever in my mind, because not only is it about being a mermaid, but it's also a pun. And if you know anything about me you know I love a bad pun.

Let me know how you spent your Mother's Day down below!

~Delaney

Saturday, April 28, 2018

Dewey Readathon April 2018

I woke up really late this morning. My plan was to start getting up earlier and earlier these past few weeks so that I am ready to jump into camp this summer, but last night we went out to see Avengers: Infinity War (I can't even talk about it, guys) and I didn't go to bed until like one in the morning because I decided to clean my room after that (why did I do that instead of going to bed or better yet start reading? IDK I'm insane). So I woke up at around 9-9:30ish this morning and am just now sitting down to read. I'm the only one home so maybe I'll be able to get through a lot, but we'll see.

First up I'll be reading A Wrinkle In Time, which I started on the Eleventh but I'm restarting because I haven't picked it up in about two weeks because of my stupid schedule.

A Wrinkle In Time - 12:09 PM - 1:18 PM, 2:12 PM - 3:07 PM

Thursday, April 12, 2018

Cars, Books, Camp and Babies: My Crazy Next Few Weeks

Busy, busy couple of  weeks! I honestly haven't had the time to sit down and write a post in a while because I have just been on the go 24/7. Car shopping (I bought a car!), babysitting, leading youth group, getting projects done around the house, and prepping for camp have been all I’ve thought about for the last few weeks! Unfortunately I got sick because of my crazy schedule about a two weeks ago and it took forever to shake! I started feeling a lot better at the beginning of last week and finally got rid of the sore throat and stuffiness by the end of it, but in a crude twist of fate I ended spending all of Saturday and Sunday working on my car in the 90+ degree weather and now I’m healing from a bad sunburn. But on the bright side (no pun intended) my Dad and I got a lot of things accomplished on my car and it's soon to be in top shape. Which will be nice seeing as my to do list has been building up like crazy in anticipation for camp.

I started working for a camp called Forest Home in 2017. Forest Home is a Christian camp based in the San Bernardino Mountains whose mission statement is “Encounter Jesus. Experience Transformation. Engage the World.” They run camp for all different ages at their main campus in the mountains, and they have a VBS program called Neighborhood Day Camp which was designed to take the fun of camp down the mountain to get communities plugged into their local church. I’ve been working with NDC as a counselor for the past two summers. It’s a ton of work but incredibly worth it! This will be my first summer leading counselors as a Crew Lead, and I am both crazy excited and crazy nervous. I’ve done tons of leadership as a teenager through 4-H, but nothing at this scale.

I’ll be in charge of a setup/tear down crew in the mornings and afternoons as well as a group of the counselors and kids during the day while they go to all of their activities. We have tons of fun activities like inflatable water slides, a climbing wall, and all kinds of games and songs as we teach kids about our amazing God. It’s a ton of work but an absolute blast! The camp goes for about ten weeks in the summer, and has previously had two teams, each of them at a different location each week. This will be our first year with our third team, which I am so pumped for! I honestly can’t wait for the summer to start but there is still so much to do for me to be ready to go. I leave near the end of May which means I have less than two months to get everything ready to go, but I’m hoping not to leave many thing to the last minute. I just bought a few books that I'm going to start reading through for bible studies, and I'm going to be bringing the Thrive leadership curriculum I used in 4-H to do some fun team building and leadership activities as well. I've never done a daily devotional outside of a mission trip program I did in 6th grade, so I was unsure of which one to pick. I know some of them, especially the women's devotionals, can be sappy and I really didn't want to go down that path. I'm not into that, and I find it really unhelpful when leading others, so I decided to just pick something that I could do my own mix on. I decided to go with Trusting God Day by Day by Joyce Meyer because it seemed to be more of a quick lesson with a verse and a few questions, which is more my cup of tea. I know Joyce Meyer is a well known author of books on faith for women, but I've never read any of her work, so I figured I'd try it out and if it's not my jam I can alter it with the Thrive curriculum.
The other book I picked up is one I've been wanting to read for a while now but never went out and bought. Teen Wisdom and Other Oxymorons by Zoe Rose Harness is an account of Zoe's family's goal to visit every US state. In Teen Wisdom Zoe shares the adventure they had and the lessons they learned through their trip as well as through her experience in working with service organizations. I knew Zoe in high school for a time and have been wanting to read her book for a while but never got the chance, so I'm super excited to jump into this one. I figured I could use all three books to make my own thing, and see where it goes. I don't want to just be winging it because I have had Crew Leads that do that before and I didn't really get a lot out of it, but I don't want it to feel like a sermon.

Babysitting and youth group have been going well lately. I babysit once a week for a small group from my church, and the kids are all rambunctious but super fun and we all have a blast just running about and playing games, or watching many many hours of Spirit on Netflix (That show guys... there's a reason I wasn't into horses when I was a kid). But it's been going good. I also have a group of girls in Jr. High that I have been working with for the past two years through my church's youth group, Remnant. We've been doing well, and we'll be finishing out the year by the end of spring. It's been a really great experience because I have never been all that great with older kids and teens, but I'm actually doing pretty well. Fifth grade is about where I max out on being a good teacher, teens and preteens just find me embarrassing, I'm not that great at relating to them. I was really nervous when I started working with this group, but I've got a good bunch and we seem to be getting on pretty well. My sister Grace is in my group and she'll be going into eighth grade this autumn, which is crazy to think about! It's really weird and silly to see her be a little teenager with her friends and think about the fact that she'll be 13 this June!

That's about everything I've been doing lately, it's just a lot of car maintenance and a lot of late nights out working with church. In the next few weeks I'll be getting the rest of my shopping done for camp, because I still have some things I want to get for my car before I leave so I will be very busy in the next coming weeks.

As I get closer to the trip I'm going to write a post on the tips and tricks on packing light that I've learned from doing NDC, because it's all information I wish I had when I started camp, and it's useful when travelling in general because I now know how to pack a ton of stuff really efficiently. I start on May 21st, so I'll be keeping you posted on things as I get closer to that date! I'm super excited and also really nervous, but I just can't wait to get started! The only other upcoming thing is the spring Dewey Readathon on April 28th. I would love to participate but I might not get a chance because the week following it is going to be crazy busy and I don't know if I'll have time, but I did just get a Litsy account a few weeks ago, and I'm trying to use it more often so if you are of the bookish variety you should head over there and add me (coffeecakeandbooks), it's basically Instagram for book people.

Let me know how your week's been going in the comments and I'll talk to you soon!
~Delaney

Tuesday, March 13, 2018

Reading Update 3/13/18

It's been a little while since I did one of these, so I thought I'd do a quick reading update for the past month. I've been getting back into a habit of reading more often and I've really enjoyed it. I'm trying to watch less TV, because I think it's affecting my sleep. I'm finding out that if I'm looking at a screen for too much time before I go to bed, I tend to not be as well rested the next morning. I know there have been studies done on the effect the blue light electronics have on our eyes and sleep patterns, and I've been experiencing some of the same effects like headaches, tired eyes, and back pain. So, I've been trying to give myself some buffer time before I go to bed where I don't use my phone, tablet, laptop, or TV. I've actually been feeling a bit better and sleeping a bit better as well. Though this habit has been a little side tracked with the release of Jessica Jones season 2 (It's so good you guys!!!). So I've been trying to devote some time before bed to reading physical books, and I think it's been working.
About a week ago I got another book to review from LibraryThing. I've been in this pattern with Early Reviewer where I mostly pick up children's books, more specifically picture books, partially because they seem to be more interesting the other books I see on there, and because they're short, and I know I can finish them in a day or two. This latest one was called Sakura's Cherry Blossoms, and it was very cute. The book tells the story of a young Japanese girl who is moving to America and shows her deal with struggle like learning a new language, making friends in a new place, and missing her home. The things that Sakura misses the most about Japan are he grandmother, and the cherry blossom tree the two of them would sit under. It's a very sweet book that helps little kids with the fear of moving and starting a new school and affirms that even if you're far away you will always be connected to your family. It was such a cute little book, and I can see it being a useful story. My youngest sister struggled with attachment each time my older three sisters moved out. This book illustrates how, no matter how far away you are, you will always have your family. It was an incredibly heartwarming story.

At the end of last month, I was reorganizing some books and I came across my old copies of The Chronicles of Narnia. My mom went through her books a while back and bought a new set of the series, and had given me her old paperbacks, and I had completely forgotten. I remember loving The Lion, The Which, and The Wardrobe when I was a kid, but for some reason I never read the other books in the series. I loved the movies growing up and was always frustrated that there had never been a full theatrical version of the entire series, though it did get close in the 1980's TV serial, and the latest film series is supposed to pick up again at the end of this year or beginning of the next. I read the first book so many times as a kid. In the christian home school world it was one of few books I started young readers on. Which isn't a bad thing, but a little funny and cliche now. But regardless I wanted to actually read all of them for the first time, so I picked up the first book, over our trip to Oregon, and finished it a couple days ago. I plan to pick up the second one as soon as I finish a couple of the review books I've got to get through, but this week I am going to be reading A Wrinkle in Time before I go and see the movie. This is one that my sister loved as a kid, and I had never read it. I'd seen a version of it from years ago, but it never stuck, and that new trailer looks so good!

I'm trying to get to a point where I'm only picking up one book at a time, but right now I have eight books I've picked up but haven't finished. Which, knowing me that's a pretty good number, because there was a time when this was my Currently reading pile:

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But I'm getting better!
~Delaney

Thursday, March 8, 2018

Weekender




This post was supposed to go up on the 27th, but I had been exhausted from the weekend before that I had no energy to even look at my computer, but this week is better, though it might have something to do with the fact that I practically slept all weekend, a complete turnaround from the one previous.











A while back I started babysitting for a small group from my church on Thursdays, it's been really fun as I love working with kids and it's helped me earn some extra cash for a car, which I'm hoping to purchase before I leave for camp this summer. It usually goes from about 6 to 9, in the evening, but sometimes a little later. Normally this isn't an issue as Fridays are usually slow at work, but this weekend my dad, my sister Grace and I were catching a plane Friday at 6 in the morning to head up to Oregon to visit my grandparents. Thursday night was one of the most tiring it's ever been, all the kids had a ton of energy, and wanted to play all kinds of games, which was great seeing at they normally just sit in front of the TV all night, but the extra energy they all seemed to have made me incredibly tired on Friday morning, for anyone else this would probably be fine but I can't sleep sitting up or on my back, or in motion. So cars, planes and trains are all out of the question. I think I spent all of Friday on about five hours of sleep!

Snow in Portland as we landed. pc. Grace Barrett
We left the house at about 3:25 in the morning and drove out to LAX, where I got one of the best breakfast sandwiches I've had in a while at The Kitchen Counter by Wolfgang Puck, that I completely forgot to take a picture of, and a cup of liquid so dark that it teetered on the line between coffee and motor oil, but it woke me up enough to get through the airport. We boarded the plane and I read and took some pictures while the majority of the other passengers slept in the blue light of the plane. I decided to read something short for the next few weeks because I want to start getting in the habit of reading more often and it helps if I'm finishing books quickly. So I picked up my old copy of The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, and I have to say that it's the perfect light read for traveling.

The trip was smooth, and as we flew into Portland I got to see the sun rise and it was beautiful. But what was more beautiful was the thick layer of snow on the ground. I absolutely love cold weather, and I love trudging through the snow. We knew we would run into some but I didn't know the extent of it. As we were landing we could see piles of it brushed to the sides of the runway, and on the tops of buildings. Getting off the plane the air was incredibly cold and clear. And it was lovely! We got into the airport and had breakfast at


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Unfortunately I chose to wear literal pajamas on the flight, and Grace did the smart thing, which was to put real clothes on, and layers at that. But the trip to the rental car was short and before I knew it I was all toasty in the car (we rented a Ford Fusion and it was a great car! Definitely on my list as I'm looking). And we headed out! We stopped in Multnomah Falls at Vista Point and changed into warmer attire, and then got to take some time to look at the gorgeous view of the river, and the gorgeous architecture. This building is basically a bathroom on a cliff. It's up a windy road and the ground level is an open marble room with bay windows looking out on the view, with stained glass windows above. It was beautiful and I wish I had gotten better pictures, but my phone was on the wrong setting and they all came out too dark. This place was so pretty and the coffee shop and gift shop below was really cute.



From there we drove up to the falls and hiked up to the Latourell waterfall. Which was easier said than done. The hike up was a little icy, and very snowy, and I was not wearing the right shoes, despite the fact that I waterproofed them at home a few nights before. The silliest thing is that upon writing this I remembered that I have a pair of snow boots in the back of my closet, and I have no idea why I didn't bring them on this trip (though I would have only used them once). But, nevertheless, it was a fun, if not death defying, hike up to the falls and I loved the little gift shop they had there too.

We then drove down to the coast and met my grandparents for dinner and we went to a local place they said they liked, The Oar House. Which is weird because when we got there it was half a bar and half a restaurant, and knowing my grandparents, who don't drink, it was the last place I'd see them going because the evening crowd was more like a bar and less like a sit down restaurant or diner, which is more their style. I actually though it was a pretty cool place and would have loved to come back during the day time when I could see it being a quieter place to go read to write with a beer or a coffee. The food was pretty good too, I had a chicken salad with feta, dried cranberries, and a vinaigrette, Grace got chicken strips and my dad got fish and chips. All of which were really good!
When we went back to my grandparents' house on the coast, we decided to take a walk down to the beach before we unpacked, and it was so cols and windy that all you could hear was the roar of the ocean. I wished I had gotten footage of it. I remember taking trips up there as a kid and in my memories it was always like a fairy tale. My grandmother's garden is gorgeous and when we traveled up there we would play games on the beach or ride the swing in the yard and it was always a nice reprieve. My grandmother isn't the nicest person. She's very blunt and critical, and my grandfather, although quieter, can be much of the same. Whenever they got a bit to bitchy we would go down to the beach, or just out to the backyard and play games. My older sisters always liked playing games where we were spies or orphans (we watched far too many movies) and so we would make something up and have a lot of fun. We hadn't had a trip like that in years so it was nice to share some of that with Grace who wasn't old enough to remember those summers.

Weirdly it felt very comforting to be there. Two summers ago while traveling with my summer job I stayed in a house that reminded me so much of my childhood, and I soon realized what it was. When I was little my great grand parents, on my mother's side, had light blue-grey carpet in their house. When they eventually moved in with my grandparents my Papa renovated the guest room and put in blue carpet. My dad's parents have been living in this house since I can remember and their guest room had blue carpet as well. So somehow I have associated blue carpet with a comforting/homey feeling. Even though it can be hard to get along with my dad's parents they are genuinely very generous people. My grandmother loves to shop and is always offering to get us things when we're up there, and she's always cooked and cleaned and driven. And this trip I can genuinely say I had a pleasant time spending it with her. Maybe it's the magic of the blue carpet, or maybe (more likely) my determination not to talk about race or politics with her no matter how many times she brought it up. I also found out where I get my dark humor from when I sat down to look at the 626 pictures she had on her camera dating back to 2009 and she about died laughing when she showed me this picture.



Cemetery = Recycling


We honestly had a really fun time with them when we set boundaries. My grandmother does tend to have struggles with control and so we had to make it clear that Grace and I were old enough to wander and explore, and after our first outing she didn't seem to mind it. We went to The Hatfield Marine Science Center and Grace and I spent so much time looking at everything. Though it was a fairly small museum there was a lot to look at. Grace is enamored with science and wants to be a Marine Biologist. She was so thrilled to spend part of the day looking at fossils, skeletons, old exploration equipment, and all the interactive things they have there. We even stayed for a Q&A about one of the octopuses (yes it's octopuses and not octopi because it's Greek not Latin) and she was enthralled by it. This museum is a really cool stop, and I'd love to come back again because there was a whole wing under renovation that doesn't open until later on in the year. It was really cool how they talked about the way that marine live affects the coastal cities in Oregon and vice versa. They had a section of the exhibit on fishing and diving. There was actually quite a bit of interactive stuff too like a wave maker in a tank of water and sand that showed you how beaches are shaped by the waves, and one where you had to power a little lighthouse by making waves.


We didn't stay for long but we got to see everything, though there were things I didn't get to read about I did see them all. But I was home schooled and the desire to read every plaque in a museum is usually contained to our kind. After that we headed to Aquarium Village and looked at the really cool little shops. Everything there is painted in bright colors with big pirate statues and the whole thing was like a quirky cartoon. We went into a little antique store with all kinds of stuff, including a ton of (slightly terrifying) porcelain dolls, and a lot of knitted blankets and hats and doilies. There was a glass blowing store where you can watch them make vases and other things, and they even had a class going while we were there. And then we went into a weird little Egyptian alchemy store where the witch offered to give me a tarot reading. I kid you not. We found a little diner to have lunch in called Mollie's Food Follies, which was cute decorated in tons of little things and pictures all over the walls, and a ton of succulents in the front window, but I wasn't too thrilled about the food, which was a shame. A lot of the shops were local artists in various mediums: glass, paint, sculptures, etc. and the whole strip was decorated with their art. It was super cool to look at.

Aquarium Village was a really cute stop
 with brightly colored shops.















That evening we went to a place in Lincoln City called Wild Flower Grill for dinner where I had a freaking good chicken pot pie with cooked veggies and some amazing paprika mashed potatoes and a puff pastry garnish. The pot pie was creamy and warm and a great reprieve from the rain outside. It was a fantastic meal! The restaurant reminded me of a small town B&B (but not in a creepy Cheshire Cat Inn from Gilmore Girls way). It was a small restaurant but super cute and it had quaint "tea time" vibe. The food seemed to be home cooking style comfort food, my dad had a clam chowder that he loved, and they had a Marionberry duck that, if I liked duck, I would have ordered because everything they had on it sounded so good. I told my brother, who likes duck, that we'd have to take him some time. By this time in the evening it was pouring rain so we headed back to my grandparent's house and got all cozy and Grace and I played card games before bed.

On Sunday we drove north and stopped at one of our favorite places in Tillamook, the Blue Heron cheese factory. We discovered this place a few years back when we went to visit the Tillamook cheese factory (because it's not vacation unless you learn something) and noticed this place a little ways down the road. They have some of the best blue cheese dressing you will ever have, and sell about every Marionberry flavored thing you can think of. I got a really excellent cracked black pepper brie on this trip that was so good. I did some wine tasting but because we were flying I didn't want to risk bringing a bottle with me so I'm ordering some from their website. We also bought some mustard that my dad liked, but we forgot to pack it in our checked luggage so it got confiscated at the airport so I'm ordering some of that as well. Most of what we bough was little things of cheese and crackers, and other little snacks, and then we headed out to Cannon Beach.



Photo by Jessica Keener, 1859 Oregon's Magazine
We got to out of the car and went into some of the shops, including a really cool board game shop where we bought Settlers of Catan, which weirdly my family has never owned. We've always loved playing board games and over the last year its grown a lot, and when we saw that they had it my dad and I both asked why we didn't own it. Unfortunately we have yet to play it. The funny thing my dad and I noticed at almost every stop we made was the myriad of glass blowing shops there were and Cannon Beach was no exception. Most of the stores we stopped by had demonstrations where you could watch the process or even offered classes on it. Which I thought would be cool to try out the next time we're up there. There was also a theme of candy shops. Everywhere we went there were candy shops! One of the many things Oregon is known for is their really good saltwater taffy and there were shops all along the coast boasting about their taffy. While we were in Cannon Beach we stopped at Bruce's Candy Kitchen and they had all kinds of flavors of local salt water taffy all displayed in a little ship in the middle of the store. This was one of those candy stores that makes you feel like a kid. Everything was brightly colored, there was a jelly bean wall, every size of jawbreaker you could ever imagine, that sour powder that is basically child cocaine. It was like being in the sailor version of Willy Wanka's Chocolate Factory, and yet it was still small and bright enough that it felt like a small mom and pop shop.
 It had been raining on and off all day and, to borrow a phrase, when it rained it poured! We ere getting drenched at times, but I absolutely loved it. I did accidentally break my umbrella at one point because the wind was just so hard that it flipped inside out, but because the rain was so sporadic that day we were able to avoid it for the most part, because there were just so many places to look at. The second candy shop of the day was Schwietert's Cones & Candy just down the road from Bruce's. Here we found the mother load of fudge! Grace loves fudge, and we don't have any local places in Riverside that make it, at least none that I know of. The girl was so excited when she was looking at all the flavors they had at Schwietert's. We ended up getting a box of six squares with Mint Chocolate Swirl, Salted Caramel, Cookies 'n' Cream, Amaretto Chocolate Swirl, Creamsicle, and Salted Caramel Rocky Road. We brought those home along with saltwater taffy to share with the family on our return, and they were excellent. After that the rain was beating down again, and so we headed back to the car and set off for Battery Russel.

Fort Stevens Battery Russel was built in 1903-1904 on the coast of Oregon and was active for a short period during WWI. It was planned to refurbish it before the start of WWII but the shipment of slate was sent elsewhere and once Pearl Harbor was attacked it was the closest fort on the continental US so it was activated before the renovations could happen. It was also the only stateside location to be attacked since the war of 1812. Grace and I loved looking around and exploring the whole fort. It was high enough tat it got a pretty good view and there were a bunch of little nooks and crannies to poke your head in. I wish there had been a bit more on the history of it. Everything I learned was just stuff my dad told me or stuff I got from Wikipedia. There was a single stone plaque with information on the fort, but it was off to the side on the lawn and I wouldn't have known it was there if I didn't see my dad walking over there. It is a small bit of history of Oregon but it would have been nice to have a brochure at least, or maybe a gift shop/museum like some of the other places we went to, but I will say that we were able to climb around and wander and  I know that we would have been discouraged had there been more of a historic presence there. It was a really cool place to look at and I honestly didn't think I would have as much fun as I did. It's a great place for taking pictures, because it's very urban meets forest. The building is very creepy industrial looking, and there are places where people had tagged it over the years, but there are also tons of flowers and moss and different fungi growing everywhere.










After Battery Russel we went down to the beach and brought some of the snacks we had bought from Blue Heron the day before, and had a light picnic for lunch. We looked out at the Peter Iredale which was a ship coming from Salina Cruz, Mexico in 1906. The crew was steering the ship toward the Columbia River as they made their way to Portland but due to a storm they were drawn toward the shore, the crew was safe, and a military investigation ruled it an accident, but when plans to move the wreck were begun the ship had become permanently embedded in the beach. You can still see the very tip of one end of the ship and a few fog pipes now but the rest of the ship was left buried in the beach.








It was perfectly windy on the beach, so after we ate Grace, Dad and I got the kites out of the car and flew them for a while on the beach. One weird thing to admit is that I actually really love flying kites, maybe it has something to do with Mary Poppins, but it's always been something I loved doing as a kid. My grandparents have had these old vinyl kites since I can remember and they were still in good condition when we pulled them out of the garage. It was super fun but as the wind picked up it became too rough, and then it started hailing on the beach! At that point we decided to pack it in and head out to our next stop.

We drove into Astoria next and I loved it. I haven't been since I was little and didn't remember much about it other than the fact that The Goonies was filmed there, but it's become a little hipster town now and had a ton of local shops and restaurants. By this time it was getting closer to the evening so we walked around downtown to find somewhere for dinner. We found the Astoria Coffeehouse & Bistro and it was super cozy looking. I got a pulled pork sandwich with roast beef, Swiss cheese, pickles and a brown mustard and it was one of the best sandwiches I've ever tasted, including the one I had at the airport. I also had a cup of tomato soup with mini grilled cheese sandwiches as croutons and it was diabolical. this place was great. It was a bit pricey but it was incredibly good food. I would definitely go back.



Before heading back to the house my dad who, like most Oregonian, is obsessed with bridges decided to drive across the Astoria Megler Bridge into Washington. Last Christmas I bought him a book called Bridges of Oregon and throughout the trip he enjoyed sharing all the little anecdotes he learned from the book as well as some stuff he knew from growing up in the area. It was kind of funny to see him geek out about the architecture and the stories of the construction. We didn't stop anywhere in Washington, but just looped back around and drove back into Oregon. The drive was really pretty and we watched the sun go down as we drove back to the coast.
It being our last full day we decided to stay at the house that evening, and pack up so we'd be ready for our trip home. Because we brought home leftovers at every single place we are at we decided to do that for dinner rather than go out again, which was nice because it gave us a chance to chill at the house before getting all packed up. Grace and I played a couple rounds of Peanuts before curling up in bed and falling fast asleep from the enormous day we had.

Monday we got up earlier than planned, but my grandmother made waffles and they were excellent! It was our last day so we took our time getting ready and said our goodbyes, before heading into Portland. Traffic was heavy but we managed to get in at a good time with great weather. It was all overcast and cold but there wasn't any rain so we could enjoy our time going from shop to shop. We started off going to Powells where I picked up a huge color by numbers book for grace and I to do on the plane, as well as a few decks of playing cards. Dad found a couple of books and things as well and we spent the majority of our time there before we walked down to Voodoo on Burnside. Because it was just the three of us, and traveling with a box of donuts is hard, as we learned the last time my dad went up we just bought a few to share rather than getting a whole box. We opted for the classic bacon maple bar, a regular maple ring, a chocolate covered donut with a cream filling and a cherry on top, and a freaking amazing (though incredibly rich) hibiscus ring with chocolate sprinkles. That hibiscus donut was so good!
After Voodoo we went to Stumptown Coffee, and picked up a bag of coffee to take home, and they were giving out samples of their coffee. It was really rich and dark, but not so dark that it tasted burnt. It was really good and an excellent wake up from a long day of traveling. Later we headed to the food trucks and I got some incredibly fresh tacos at Tito's Tacos on SW Adler. The Tortillas were warm and fluffy and the carne asada was perfectly cooked with fresh pico de gallo, lettuce and a cream sauce on top! Usually you want to avoid Mexican food in Oregon, it's usually what I wall "white people tacos". It's Taco Bell level authenticity, and usually gives you a stomach ache, but these were really good street tacos, and the guava Jarrito I had with it was excellent.




After we ate it was time to head back to the airport. We were all tired from our weekend, so the flight back was quiet, as Grace colored, I read and Dad took a nap. We had a really good trip and I can't wait to go back! ~Delaney


Tuesday, February 20, 2018

To Do Lists: Breaking and Building Habits

So I didn't post last week, but it's because I've been having some trouble with getting words out right. I've also lately fallen into a routine with volunteering at church and babysitting weekly, which is nice, but it doesn't leave a lot of time for doing other things. Especially when I've had a busy week of paperwork and haven't had the chance to do things like dishes or tidying my room.

I've been trying to get work done around the house on the rare occasions that I'm home but we've been going to the beach almost every weekend these last two months, or I volunteer at church and then I'm gone most of the day. Again, these aren't bad things, but they add up to tired Mondays with nothing checked off of my weekend to do list. And ultimately distracting me from the goals I'm trying to focus on.

I've been trying to get things on track this year, and for the most part I've been successful, I've started keeping my room tidy, I've started writing again, I'm planning on having a car by the time I start camp and things have been going pretty well. There are times I trip up, but that's bound to happen when you're re-building yourself. You're digging through the bad habits and some of those bad habits are embarrassing. I've been thinking a lot about the kind of person I am, and the kind of person I'm building. Especially when it comes to completing tasks. I tend to be fairly lazy when I have to get things done and it's hard to change that, to break the habits I've formed for nearly 23 years, but what's helped me is reminding myself of a few questions: What kind of person do I want to be? and What is a physical step I could do today to get there?

I will be the first to admit that I am a list maker but not a list doer. I love sitting down with some paper and highlighters and making a color coordinated list of every little thing I need to get done. But when it comes to completing tasks I tend to fall short. I will put a list together with every minuscule task I need or want to do, and once I finish it I don't know where to begin. Do you ever get that way? Where once you see everything you need to do, you just shut down.


Although I am making this year one of change, getting rid of bad habits and forming good ones is still hard. There's just too much to do, or too many distractions, or some of the things require external cooperation. Or worse yet I just have no motivation to work on that particular task. I get overwhelmed or just plain lazy. And I really don't like this about myself! I don't know why I do it because I know that I need to get things accomplished, but I just don't know where to begin. As I've been working to improve myself this year I have come to the realization that everyone who's tried to break habits has come to: It's really hard! It's hard to do simple things when you are not used to doing them. I am not very good at keeping my room tidy. I am usually working on a lot of little projects at once, so I'll have a sketchbook, some pens, my laptop, some coloring books, a journal (maybe two), some laundry, the book I'm writing, AND a few books I'm reading all strewn across my bed at once. Then I'll jump back and forth between them, without actually making much progress, because I don't really know where to begin and there are too many distractions to focus.

It leads to unproductive evenings and weekends and has caused me to admit something that really hurts to tell myself: I can't multitask. Ouch! I have friends and relatives that multitask really well, but it's just not a skill I have. Maybe I can build it in the future, but for now I need to focus on one thing at a time, and I need to make it a habit. So right at this moment I am turning off the music I'm listening to, I'm minimizing all of the other windows, and tabs I have open, and I'm moving distractions like books and to do lists out of my line of sight so that all I am focusing on is this post. *breathes*

Do you ever not realize you had a headache until after you put away the headache inducing item(s), and take stock of yourself for a moment. "Oh hey, I didn't realize there was a pain in my right temple, but it's going away now that my headphones are off." Taking a break feels hard at first. I have the urge to pop onto facebook, or pop my headphones back on, but I know that after some time I will get used to it, the other things can wait, and it will actually help me accomplish things better in the future. But I need to remember that while its okay to take breaks in life it's not okay to live your life on a break. This is something I have been doing. And yes you can live your life on a break and still over schedule yourself.

When you continue to put off important tasks, you are over scheduling and living on a break. When you think of entertainment or hobbies as mandatory, you are over scheduling and living on a break. You are forming bad habits by putting off what needs to be done and allowing your to do list to be filled with things that don't.

I've got a lot on my list. Big goals for the year like getting my license, or a car, and small goals like  working on my book, exercising more frequently, and improve my handwriting. All important things but varying in their importance. But the main issue is that I also have things on my list that aren't important such as keeping up on TV or making time to doodle, or bake. These things not only come secondary, but they can also deter me from completing my bigger goals. They shouldn't even be on a to do list, they should be options for after to do lists are done.

So once I've eliminated these items by sorting everything else by importance, where do I begin? Well the obvious answer is the most important thing on the list, but instead of deciding what's most most important I'm starting with what's small. It's important that I participate in keeping the kitchen tidy, but it's also important that I keep my room clean. My room will take less time, especially if I give myself a set time to complete it in. I know this sounds a little crazy but it really works. I can get to the kitchen when I have some people to share toe workload with.
It should only take about ten minutes to tidy my room, make the bed, and vacuum. And maybe even throw in a load of laundry. Then I can start washing some dishes between loads. But one thing I think we all tend to forget is that we can only do so many things in a day. I tend to get a list of thirty things I want to do on a Saturday, but there aren't enough hours in the day, and some of the tasks take much longer than others. So ask yourself: What is the priority? What is on my list that can be done quickly? Where do those two things converge? If I continue to do this I will be building a habit, and off of this habit I can build a new one, where I don't need a list to tell me what needs to be done. I pick up after myself before it can turn into a mess, and once my habit for to do lists turns into me having already done them I'll have more tie to devote to hobbies and the likes.

I can tell myself over and over that I am going to wake up one day and be different, but that's not how change works. Change is a process, a long one filled with ups and downs, but I can ask myself what I could be doing right now that will help to move me forward, toward a goal I want to complete, by subtracting distractions and adding positive habits. I can tell myself that I am going to start getting up early on Saturdays and whack out a bunch of stuff, but if I stay up late watching TV on Friday night that's not going to happen. It's about making sacrifices, and they may be silly sacrifices, but they're hard nonetheless. At least at first.

So now I want to ask: What are ways you keep yourself motivated? Do you make lists? Do you multitask? Please leave your tips below, I'd love to hear them. Thanks!

~Delaney

P.S. Totally unrelated but Dashboard Confessional just released their new album. It's called Crooked Shadows and it's like ear candy! You guys! My soul needed this!

Tuesday, February 6, 2018

Reading Update 2/6/18

So today's post was supposed to be a baking post. I made a cake last weekend, but it turned out to be just a sweet moist mess. We hadn't gone shopping until Sunday, but I wanted to make the cake Saturday so I used a lot of substitutions and it ended up tasting like a mound of sweet butter. Gross. So instead I though I'd update you on what I've been reading. Last year was a weird year and I didn't end up reading a lot. I also feel like I've been in a funk when it comes to books, so I've decided to kind of push myself back into it. Which I've actually been enjoying lately, especially because I'm not buying books this year, well sort of, (I bought a copy of A Wrinkle in Time because I don't own it, and had no idea where my mom's copy was). But not buying books has allowed me to explore the weird, and old things I've never read that I had buried in some box or sitting on my Over Drive, and I've been enjoying the diversity in subjects.

Last month I listened to Bronx Masquerade by Nikki Grimes which tells the story of about 20 students who take part in a poetry club at their Bronx high school. The students come from all walks of life and, through their poetry, discuss topics like race, gangs, economic status, teen parenthood, and growing up. This was such a good book and I loved listening to it on audio because all of the characters were narrated by different people, adding to their personalities. It was a super short listen and I ended up finishing it within a week. I'm sure you've heard me gab about my new love for audio books, because it's really helped me to not have to make time for reading, and I can listen to them while at work, or getting stuff done at home. And this was such a good one! I rated it 4/5 stars.

I also started 642 Tiny Things to Draw and this book has been fun and surprisingly difficult. Though I wouldn't call myself an artist I do enjoy drawing, and am known to doodle a lot. This book has been so much fun to work on, because the subjects vary in difficulty, and in interpretation. Similar to when I went through the Wreck This Journal, I've enjoyed looking online to see what other people have drawn for some of these, but the thing I like the most about this is the challenge it presents and the skill that I'm improving as I work through it. I think when I've finished I'm going to flip through and scan some of my favorite pages and write a post about them.

In a similar genre (creativity, fill-in-the-book, ect.) I was given Piccadilly's 300 Writing Prompts this last Christmas and I've been working through them (though I admit less frequently, but I just really like to doodle). What surprised me about this is that they are not story writing prompts, as I thought, but it's more like a journal. The prompts are subjects like "Imagine you are planning a trip across the continent on which you live. Assuming you have unlimited time, resources, and energy, what will be your mode of transportation?", "What's the worst emotion a human can feel?", or "What's your best pickup line?". Again I think when I am finished I'd like to do a post about my favorite pages in this one, despite the fact that my handwriting is atrocious.
I also picked up The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis. I really enjoyed this book when I was a kid, it was one of the first chapter books I read, and I love the story. That being said I never read the entire series and yet they are so short! I'm nearly half way through the first one and I started it Saturday night. This is probably not an exciting thing for most people, but I'm a bit of a slow reader, and lately reading has taken a backseat in my life, so the pure fact that it's only February 6th and I've already finished four books this year is something I am ecstatic about! On top of that is the fact I've been doing a lot of cleaning and decluttering (is that a word?) in my house, and I've still had lots of reading time is really great! There's also some joy in reading a book for fun as an adult, that you had to read for school, as a kid. You get a different perspective, and you get to be more relaxed with your reading schedule. I think I'm going to enjoy jumping back into this series.

That's about all I've been working on that is blog worthy. I've mostly spent my evenings going through stuff, cleaning, reading, or watching Zumbo's Just Deserts on Netflix. I was not happy with the winner of that one though. I'm planning a yard sale, hence the going through stuff, to raise a bit more money for a car. I'm hoping to have one before camp starts, though I might just wait until the end of Summer which would mean I'd have a bigger budget to work with, but we'll see about that. For now I'm enjoying getting back to being a reader. I've missed it.

~Delaney

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Giving up Pointless Projects for Purposeful Product

Busy lazy weekend! I swear it feels like I got nothing done, and yet I was doing stuff all weekend. I spent Saturday tidying my bedroom, bathroom, and kitchen, in an attempt to be able to bake on Sunday for today's post, but I didn't have the chance to do laundry or any baking. I'm setting aside Saturday for that this next weekend though, as I have earned it with all the work I did this last week.






I did however get to go to the beach on Sunday, which was just what I needed! I haven't had a decent beach trip in I don't know how long, but I can tell you it's probably been a year or so. This was something I feel like my soul needed. There's been a lot of change and craziness going on lately and it was nice to squidge my toes in the sand and just breathe for a moment, and clear my head for what I hope will be a productive week.


I've deemed this year a year of decluttering. Of stepping back and asking myself what I have in my life, what I need, and what I can get rid of. My church is doing a series right now called Subtraction (iTunesCastbox), about all of the extra things we add to our lives in order to feel fulfilled, and how maybe we shouldn't be adding things but finding out what we can do without. I found this perfect timing because I have been planning this post for about a month and a half and now I have something to refer back to.

In all honesty I don't have a busy schedule, but rather I fill my time with unimportant things and act like they are requirements, and then stress when they aren't finished. TV is a really good example, I have a really hard time DNFing TV shows. My Netflix list is like a million years long, and even though I know that I'd rather watch my favorite shows over again, I still sit through shows I have minimal interest in just so I can say I've finished it. I've recently discovered this, and I honestly don't know why I do it, but I can tell you that I don't like it. I don't like spending all Saturday watching something just because "I have to finish it".

And who says I have to finish it? Is it me? Society? Netflix? I feel like it's all part of the FOMO our generation has. We can't miss out on the next fandom or the next fad because our friends will be talking about it and we'll feel left out. "Did you do the Ice Bucket Challenge? The Tide Pod Challenge? The how-many-toothpicks-can-I-fit-in-my-eye-socket-challenge?!" But is that really how our friendships work these days? With contingencies on what kind of television shows you watch, or useless activities you participate in? I'm going to admit something that's embarrassing, and yet as I say that it seems incredibly stupid.
I haven't watched Stranger Things.

There I said it. Most of you have probably already closed your browser. Farewell friends. It's been good while it lasted. RIP us.

Dramatic I know, but this is honestly a reaction I've gotten before when I admit that. And then if I admit that I DNFed (Did Not Finish) Game of Thrones it's like I'm no longer part of the group. Like we base our friendship on how much television we watch. But what TV shows we watch are not the soul factor in our personalities, nor are they the only thing that keep a relationship together. Our relationships are based on the love we have for each other in both our similarities and our differences. I draw, not well, but I enjoy it, I love to decorate cakes, I enjoy hiking and doing other nature like things, I love sitting down with a cup of coffee and just talking, and I LOVE to read. My family and friends enjoy some of these things as well but not all of them. And yet despite that knowledge I still find myself apologizing to people because I hadn't caught up on that one popular tv show: "I'm sorry, I just haven't had the chance." "This weekend I promise." "I know I need to just do it." It sound's like I'm talking about going through my garage, landscaping my backyard, or going back to school. Those are things I have to do. So why do I feel this guilt? And why do I inflict the same guilt on the people in my life when they haven't watched one of my shows? The answer to that is that honestly I don't know, because all it does is cause isolation. You aren't in with the crowd. You don't belong. And that truly sucks, because it causes unimportant expectations for the people who want to get to know us. A requirement list, that keeps getting longer. And it just needs to stop.

So I started deleting things from my Netflix list. Without looking up the trailer or reading the description like I used to, and weirdly I felt uneasy about it. That FOMO was already seeping in and I couldn't even tell you the plot of half the things I was deleting. I have to say that I hate that. I hate that something so stupid as television has so much pull in my life. I wanted that control back, so I just started getting rid of things. And now I feel no regrets about doing it. I've decided that from now on, every time I go to watch something I'm going to ask myself: Am I watching this because I want to, or because it's just something to do? And if the answer is that it's just something to do, I'm going to find something purposeful to fill my time: Work on my handwriting. Learn a new skill (like knitting or guitar - something with an end result, a finished product). Practice my math skills (I can't tell you the last time I was on Khan Academy). Go on a walk without my phone and just be in the moment. Maybe even write that book. I've been wanting to for so long.
Or maybe I'll use that time to actually do something with my family. Play a game, go on an adventure, make food, be silly, or simply just be. I think just being would be nice for a change. I have too many hobbies and for the longest time I've schedules them out. On Monday I draw, on Tuesday I color, on Wednesday I watch television... what if I decided not to do any of those and instead just focused on one thing, one thing that could actually produce a new skill, or a tangible goal. I've been really wanting to start walking. Focusing on that one thing and keeping that single goal in my head would allow me to hit my goal of loosing some weight, of getting to a healthier lifestyle, of not feeling depressed about the things I can't control, but instead would allow the time for me to focus. To ask myself what I want to accomplish, and where I see myself going. I can't do everything, but maybe I can do the right things for me. I can subtract the excess and learn what I can live without. I always joke that I could be one of those people that go off the grid, living in a cabin in the woods with a garden and some animals, but I can't even log out of Facebook.

I keep saying I want to have a whole week where I can de-clutter my house. Go through things, get rid of anything I don't need, and make things neater. But while I can't take a whole week off of work, I can focus on one thing every evening, and find a way to make a dent. I just need to make the time. No, I have the time I just need to utilize it. I need to be content with what I have, and subtract the meaningless things. Like I mentioned previously, my church has been doing a series on subtraction and a few weeks back my pastor said, "I think endless potential is paralyzing. The capacity to pursue everything creates paranoia over choosing the wrong thing, preventing us from committing to anything." There are so many hobbies that I have because I didn't want to miss out on the things my friends were doing. There are so many TV shows I started watching because I didn't want to be left out of the conversation when someone was theorizing about a plot point. But when you add all of these projects together it's just so much time lost, when I could have been doing something that had a better impact on my life. Something that made me think "I'm glad I didn't miss this", because living it is better than hearing about it. All I have to do is step back and look at what is taking up time in my life that I could be spending on my relationships or on my goals. Then subtract those things and fill that time with purpose.

So what are those things for me? Well I already mentioned my addiction to Netflix, but I also spend a lot of time on Facebook and Instagram just scrolling without actually engaging in the conversations there. And I watch a lot of YouTube. Too much YouTube! While these things aren't inherently bad I tend to gravitate toward them in order to fill my time, and then suddenly that time becomes my social media time. Instead of being a way to connect it becomes a distraction from my potential. This is where I need to start saying 'no'. When I find myself turning to Facebook I need to ask myself if there's something I'd rather be doing that can get me closer to one of my goals. Could I be writing? Reading? Spending time with my little sister? What could I be doing that I will remember in thirty years? And then I need to remember to breathe.
Part of stepping back, de-cluttering, and saying no, is taking that time to breathe. I am trying to actually allow myself to do that. To get off of everything, sit down with a pen and some paper, and either write or draw what is going on in that moment. I hate the phrases "live in the moment" or "YOLO" because I think it can be used to justify dumb decisions, but when I look back on my life I don't want to see a lot of sitting in front of a computer and obsessing over trivial things. I want to see trips like this one, where I got to explore places I love with the people I love. I got to do silly things and relax without thinking of self inflicted requirements. I don't need to see all 13 seasons of Supernatural, but I do need to see my sister become 13 and experience the memories that will come with this new year. I don't need to do everything as long as the things I do are worth while. I don't have to take everything I want when I was given everything I need. ~Delaney